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On being ‘triggered’: A blessing in disguise
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Continue reading →: On being ‘triggered’: A blessing in disguiseLast year, someone did something that upset me more than it should have and I had to sit with that for a while. In the grand scheme of things, it wasn’t the worst thing in the world which is why I was so confused about how upset I was. While…
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Continue reading →: Van meat, doomscrolling and shutting up: 10 things I’ve learned this yearOh God, this was a challenging year and I know it’s not quite over yet, but I’m already over it, so as I dig out my baseball bat, sharpen my knife set, and brush up on my martial arts in preparation for whatever fresh Hell 2026 has in store, here…
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Continue reading →: F**k Everything And RunCandles, costumes, decorations, horror films, chilling with the dead… It’s Halloween baby!!! My love of this holiday has always been there, but it’s increased with age which might be odd but is not surprising given that having been beaten to a pulp by life, us older millennials tend to find…
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Continue reading →: Something in the air2025 has been interesting for many reasons but one area that has me flummoxed at the moment is how things have been for me energetically. I don’t know what’s going on but the energy I’ve been receiving over the past few months has been confusing and this is coming from…
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Continue reading →: Two comedians and a psychopathA comedian I loved when I was growing up was Chris Rock. It felt almost serendipitous that as I was grappling with ideas about race and belonging, here was Rock saying things that resonated with how I was feeling at the time. Like many other teenagers I had ‘The Slim…
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Continue reading →: Nah, I’m not okayA few months ago, someone paid me a compliment and in the spirit of being the reflector that I am I only realised hours after the fact. As if that wasn’t bad enough, on a separate occasion my last interaction with this person was so low energy on my part…





