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Words fail me
There are two situations in life when words fail me. The first is when I’m attracted to someone – doesn’t happen often, but when it does you can guarantee that my ability to converse like a person with a brain suddenly disappears. The second is when I’m overwhelmed. Some years ago, I had such a…
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The dark side of personal development
While personal development is, for the most part rewarding and an important part of levelling up in pretty much all walks of life, it’s not all ‘love and light’. If we accept the fact that everything has it’s positive and negative attributes, then we must conclude that personal development is no exception. There are some…
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Treadmills, contact lenses and fatigue
Let’s discuss PDF. No, not the buggy, overpriced shite from Adobe, the other PDF: Personal Development Fatigue. Yes, it is a thing (because I said so!) and yes, coaches get it too. And by coaches, I mean this coach. Me. I get PDF. The constant learning, and growing, and improving, and doing, and dissecting, and…
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The best day of February 2026
The best day this February is nearly upon us and I’m so excited! It’s not everyone’s cup of tea and that’s understandable, but I can’t wait. It’s a fun time that makes me feel all tingly inside – especially at night. I already have plans. Chocolates and wine will be involved, and popcorn, and blankets……
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On being ‘triggered’: A blessing in disguise
Last year, someone did something that upset me more than it should have and I had to sit with that for a while. In the grand scheme of things, it wasn’t the worst thing in the world which is why I was so confused about how upset I was. While I was stressing about it,…
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Van meat, doomscrolling and shutting up: 10 things I’ve learned this year
Oh God, this was a challenging year and I know it’s not quite over yet, but I’m already over it, so as I dig out my baseball bat, sharpen my knife set, and brush up on my martial arts in preparation for whatever fresh Hell 2026 has in store, here are 10 things I’ve learned…







